Thursday, January 31, 2013

Sermon - January 20, 2013 "A Heart Full of Grace"



John 2:1-11
On the third day there was a wedding in Cana of Galilee, and the mother of Jesus was there. 2Jesus and his disciples had also been invited to the wedding. 3When the wine gave out, the mother of Jesus said to him, “They have no wine.” 4And Jesus said to her, “Woman, what concern is that to you and to me? My hour has not yet come.” 5His mother said to the servants, “Do whatever he tells you.” 6Now standing there were six stone water jars for the Jewish rites of purification, each holding twenty or thirty gallons. 7Jesus said to them, “Fill the jars with water.” And they filled them up to the brim. 8He said to them, “Now draw some out, and take it to the chief steward.” So they took it. 9When the steward tasted the water that had become wine, and did not know where it came from (though the servants who had drawn the water knew), the steward called the bridegroom 10and said to him, “Everyone serves the good wine first, and then the inferior wine after the guests have become drunk. But you have kept the good wine until now.” 11Jesus did this, the first of his signs, in Cana of Galilee, and revealed his glory; and his disciples believed in him.


Scholars talk about the gospel of John being like a fine tapestry. It is beautiful to look at. It is intricately detailed when you look closely. And if you pull one thread you’ll find that it weaves throughout the whole piece. 

The first paragraphs of John’s gospel tell us a lot about what threads to follow throughout the rest of the book. Themes of light verses darkness, testimony and belief, the human and divine as one, and grace and truth. These themes weave together the story of the Word made flesh written almost 70 years after Jesus’ death and resurrection. In the gospel of John the word grace only appears 4 times. It’s in the last few verses of those famous first paragraphs, “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God…And the Word became flesh and lived among us, and we have seen his glory, the glory as of a father’s only son, full of grace and truth…From his fullness we have all received, grace upon grace. The law indeed was given through Moses; grace and truth came through Jesus Christ. No one has ever seen God. It is God the only Son, who is close to the Father’s heart, who has made him known.”[i]
But even though the word grace does not appear again, we know that because of its prominence in the beginning of the book grace will play a leading role in the story; grace is an important thread throughout the tapestry. The gospel of John sets out from the beginning to show us what grace tastes and smells and looks and sounds and feels like.[ii]
 
And so in the very next chapter, right after Jesus calls his first disciples by name, asking them to “Come and see,” we get the first experience of grace at the wedding at Cana. The story itself is somewhat amusing. Here is this thirty-year-old man at a wedding with his mom because apparently neither of them had a date. And he decided to bring his new friends along. Now in Jesus’ day, wedding celebrations usually went on for a week or so – I can only imagine the amount of food and wine needed for a week of entertaining all your friends and family. No wonder families hoped for boys so they wouldn’t have to put on giant, week-long weddings. But I digress. So they are celebrating, having a good time, when what horrible thing should occur but they run out of wine. As you know a party without wine is like a pool without water – there’s nothing to keep anyone afloat. Is Mary worried for the embarrassment of the host? Maybe she’s concerned for the steward who would surely be punished for lack of planning. Maybe she just wants another glass to go with her delicious roast lamb. Who knows. So she says to her loving son, “ahem…they’re out of wine.” And Jesus says, “Woman! That is not my problem!” (To be clear, addressing his mother as “woman” did not have the disparaging connotation it does today.) But I imagine the un-recorded look Mary gave her son. You know, the “mom look.” And as an obedient son, he went off to do something about the wine problem.

So he asks the servants to fill some buckets with water and he turns that water into wine. But this is not just a little bit of water and a little bit of wine. This is 6 giant jars each containing about 20 or 30 gallons of water. So I did the math on that and it turns out that one of those jars is just over the equivalent of 150 bottles of wine which equals to a total of 900 bottles of wine. 900 bottles of wine! So then I called my dad who was in charge of ordering wine for my wedding. We had 4 cases of red, 4 cases of white, 2 cases of champagne and about 12 bottles of non-alcoholic sparkling grape juice. That equals about 132 bottles total, and some of it is still sitting in our basement. 900 bottles of wine…this is more than I can wrap my head around. This is more than was necessary for the party even if it was the first night, which it certainly wasn’t given that they had just run out. 

But the really extraordinary thing about this wine, beyond that it started as water, beyond that there was so much of it, is that it was the best wine any of them had ever tasted. Usually the host brought out the bottles of ’08 Relentless Syrah from the Shafer Vineyards[iii] at the beginning of the party and kept back the boxes of Franzia for after the haze of inebriation settled over the crowd. Yet here it was, the best wine anyone had ever tasted, not too sweet, not too dry – perfect. 

There are 7 “signs” or miracles in John’s gospel, this being the first. Each of these signs is meant to show us something about Jesus. You notice how at the end of this episode John is careful to mention that the disciples believed in him? Well, each of the signs in the gospel are about not just telling us that Jesus is the Son of God, but showing us, helping us to experience the Word made flesh. After all, flesh is experiential, we are made of flesh and we are made for activity not passivity. And so, even though it was not yet his “time” and even against his apparent desire not to work on vacation, Jesus does this, the first of his signs, in Cana of Galilee.
You see, the thing that this story is trying to convey to us, trying to help us not just hear, but see and taste and smell and feel, is that God’s grace is like the best, most expensive wine when you expect the cheap stuff[iv]. Or if you prefer, it’s like free tickets to the best seats in the house to see your favorite team when you expected to watch the game on a 12-inch screen at home sitting on your old easy chair with springs sticking up through the seat. Or it’s like getting Chicago-style deep dish pizza loaded with all the toppings you like when you just picked up a box of off-brand frozen pizza rolls. God’s grace is the best of the best when you expected or even deserved the bottom of the barrel and there is more of it than you can fathom, more than you can imagine, more, certainly, than is necessary. 

And so this story about the best party the New Testament ever saw means to show us something about the truth of God in Christ Jesus, not just tell us. This story is meant to touch us, to make us think a little, to inspire us, to astound us so that we, like the disciples might believe. Have you seen the billboard on the freeway that says, “got faith” and has a faucet with water pouring out and becoming wine in a wine glass? This story means to create faith within our hearts. And just like Jesus didn’t turn water into wine just for the fun of it, but for the good of the gathered people, Jesus doesn’t create faith in our hearts just for the fun of it, but for the good of the world. 

Every year around this time I go back and reread some of Martin Luther King Jr.’s classics like the “I have a Dream” speech and, my favorite, his “Letter from Birmingham Jail.” This year the one that hit me was his sermon from February 4, 1968 titled “The Drum Major Instinct.”  It’s his sermon on Mark chapter 10 where James and John so presumptuously ask Jesus if they can sit at his right and left in heaven. King preached about the instinct of humans to be noticed and praised by others and considered great, out in front like a drum major,[v] he said. For personal gain, he said, that is a problem. But we should want to be great for the kingdom. And the way to do that, he said is by being a servant. And then he said this: “And this morning, the thing that I like about it: by giving that definition of greatness, it means that everybody can be great, (Everybody) because everybody can serve. (Amen) You don't have to have a college degree to serve. (All right) You don't have to make your subject and your verb agree to serve. You don't have to know about Plato and Aristotle to serve. You don't have to know Einstein's theory of relativity to serve. You don't have to know the second theory of thermodynamics in physics to serve. (Amen) You only need a heart full of grace, (Yes, sir, Amen) a soul generated by love. (Yes) And you can be that servant.”[vi]

A heart full of grace. A heart full of grace and you can be that servant. A heart full of grace is our gift from God, according to this story of the wedding at Cana. A heart full of grace, full to overflowing, abundantly full of the best grace ever to be experienced! Grace that fills the heart so full of love that we cannot help but live lives of gratitude, serving one another and this world God gave us. 

King finished this sermon with the words he wanted spoken at his funeral. “I'd like somebody to mention that day that Martin Luther King, Jr., tried to give his life serving others. (Yes)
I'd like for somebody to say that day that Martin Luther King, Jr., tried to love somebody.
I want you to say that day that I tried to be right on the war question. (Amen)
I want you to be able to say that day that I did try to feed the hungry. (Yes)
And I want you to be able to say that day that I did try in my life to clothe those who were naked. (Yes)
I want you to say on that day that I did try in my life to visit those who were in prison. (Lord)
I want you to say that I tried to love and serve humanity. (Yes)
Yes, if you want to say that I was a drum major, say that I was a drum major for justice. (Amen) Say that I was a drum major for peace. (Yes) I was a drum major for righteousness.”[vii]

May our hearts be so filled with grace that we live our lives serving others. Amen.

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

Congregations and Generations

Below is a link to a blog post by a pastor in PA written about a book he recently read describing ways to unite all 6 (yep, 6, not 3) generations within one congregation. Interesting observations and sounds like a book which could lead to some great conversation. 

Generational Log Jam 

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

13 Inspiration quotes for 2013

I'm not one who makes New Year's resolutions. But I do like the idea of starting off the calendar year with a good dose of hope and inspiration.This article is from the ELCA's on-line magazine called "LivingLutheran.com." You should check it out. Thanks to my husband, Andrew Tengwall, for drawing my attention to this one.

13 inspirational Quotes for 2013

Chalking the Door



Chalking the Door An Epiphany tradition
BY: Paul F. Bosch and Andre Lavergne (see www.beliefnet.com)

On or before the Epiphany, January 6, family and friends (C for "community") gather at the main entrances to homes or apartments and ask God's blessing on their dwellings and on all who live or visit there.

L: Peace be to this house and to all who enter here.

L: A reading from Proverbs: "By wisdom a
house is built, and through understanding it is established; through knowledge its rooms are filled with rare and beautiful treasures."

L: Let us pray: Gracious God, as a shining star once guided the magi to the birthplace of the
infant Jesus, so enable us to be your light in the world; through Jesus Christ we pray.

C: Amen.

Using chalk, inscribe the horizontal frame above the door with the inscription shown below. The letters C M B come from the traditional (9th century) names for the "three kings"--Caspar, Melchior, and Balthazar. Some also suggest "Christus Mansionem Benedicat," which means "May Christ bless this dwelling." The numbers stand for the year 2013.

Each person receives a turn to make one or more of the marks: 20 + C + M + B + 13.

L: A reading from Isaiah: "The effect of righteousness is peace, and the result of righteousness, quietness and trust forever. My people will abide in a peaceful habitation, in secure dwellings, and quiet places."

People may join hands or extend their hands outward and upward for the prayers.

L: Let us pray: Sovereign God, we pray that you will bless this
home, all who live here and all who enter here, with your gracious presence, that your love may be our inspiration, your wisdom our guide, your truth our light, and your peace our benediction; through Jesus Christ we pray.

C: Amen.

L: Lord, remember
your children and teach us to pray:

C: Our Father...

People may make the sign of the cross in remembrance of their baptism.


L: May the Lord watch over our going out and our coming in, from this time forth and forevermore.

C: Amen.

Three Kings Cake

   Three Kings Cake
This is the basic recipe I used (with variations) for the Three Kings Cake served in worship on January 6th. The website is http://easteuropeanfood.about.com/od/polishdesserts/r/kingcake.htm . I have included my variations in this italicized print. Enjoy!

On the Feast of the Three Kings on Jan. 6, a king cake is served with a miniature baby doll representing Jesus, coin or almond baked inside. The one who gets it is king or queen for the day and will be lucky in the coming year or hosts the next Epiphany party and makes the next Kings Cake. Recipes vary by region. Some serve a French-type puff pastry cake with almond paste filling, others favor a sponge cake with almond cream filling, and yet others enjoy a light fruitcake, as in this recipe.

Makes 1 (10-inch) Bundt cake AND 2 (6"x4") mini loaves For 2 Bundt-sized cakes I added another ½ recipe
Prep Time: 20 minutes
Cook Time: 1 hour mine went almost 2hours
Total Time: 1 hour, 20 minutes
Ingredients:
  • 3/4 cup light raisins
  • 3/4 cup chopped dates
  • 1 1/3 cups chopped walnuts
  • 1/2 cup chopped dried apricots
  • 1/2 cup chopped candied orange or lemon peel. I used lemon zest instead
  • I substituted nuts and dried fruit that I had available: dark raisins, dried cranberries, dried mangoes, walnuts and almond slices.
  • 1/2 pound (2 sticks) softened butter
  • 4 cups confectioners' sugar. This seemed like a lot of sugar at the time. I substituted some regular sugar for the confectioners’ sugar.
  • 8 large eggs
  • 4 cups + 3/4 cup all-purpose flour
  • 4 teaspoons baking powder
  • 2 teaspoons vanilla extract
  • 1/2 cup brandy or whiskey or orange juice
  • Glaze:
  • 1 cup confectioners' sugar
  • 3 tablespoons lemon or orange juice
Preparation:
  1. Heat oven to 325 degrees. Lightly coat a 10-inch Bundt pan and two (6"x4") mini loaf pans (for gifting!) with cooking spray. Mix fruits and nuts and toss with 3/4 cup flour to keep ingredients from clumping together in cake batter.
  2. In a large bowl or stand mixer, cream together butter and sugar until light and fluffy. Add eggs one at a time, beating after each.
  3. In a separate bowl, mix together 4 cups flour and baking powder and slowly add to the butter-sugar-egg mixture, combining thoroughly. Add vanilla and liquor or juice, mixing well. Stir in fruit-nut mixture by hand until thoroughly incorporated.
  4. Pour batter into prepared pan and bake mini loaves 25 minutes to 35 minutes or more, and Bundt pan 45 minutes to 1 hour or more, or until toothpick tests clean. I checked the cakes after 45 minutes and then every 15 minutes. It ended up being almost 2 hours.
  5. Let cake cool on a wire rack for 20 minutes before inverting onto rack to cool completely. Combine glaze ingredients and pour over cooled cake, letting it run down the sides.
  6. When cutting the cake, insert the hidden prize in one slice of cake from the underside. Make a paper crown, if desired, and place it atop the cake. Let guests serve themselv